Juggling the cultures

I am beginning to wonder if my life would have been much simpler if I had been raised in one culture. Multiculturism always seems to cause problems, since my childhood I tried to juggle the Pakistani culture with the British, until a pivotal point in my life..the arranged marriage. Fortunately/Unfortunately it did not last long- hence gave me the freedom I was looking for. I have always tried to live as I can please both worlds and now that these two lives- my boyfriend and now fiancee will meet the other life -the great Pakistani girl- which role will I play?